I was so turned on by this idea. I would be in control. I’m a naturally curious and crafty person so the idea of having creative control over his erection was exciting, to say the least.
I was sitting in the car waiting for him on the second morning of our trip. I took a drink of a coconut water. There was a lot of pulp in it. So much pulp that a pill could be easily swallowed without noticing.
I giggled to myself. This was my chance.
I quickly picked up my purse, grabbed the pill, and dropped it in. When he arrived at the car I greeted him with the nearly empty can of coconut water. “Chug this so I can throw it away.” He noted the amount of pulp, but finished it anyway. He handed it back to me. I scanned the bottom of the can. The pill was gone.
We had been driving for a couple hours when I decided to test the effects of the Viagra. I ran my fingernails on his thigh. Up and down. Not saying a word. Then closer to his penis.
“Oh my god, you have me so hard,” he said in complete shock. I giggled. “You’re so sneaky.” I took that as a compliment and laughed. I felt accomplished and in control of how and when we would be passionate.
I knew what turned him on, but this was different. I was able to arouse him on demand. I wanted him to know I could arouse him at my pleasure, and he wouldn’t be able to resist.
I would lightly touch his thigh or a sensitive area and he’d immediately become very hard. Then I would just smile and walk away. I made it clear that I was the one in charge. This new power I had was a turn on for him. And also for me, because he was giving me permission to control his body.
The real fun began when we arrived at our destination in the rainforest. We walked on a trail that was off the hiking path until we came across an 80-foot waterfall. As we got closer, the water that crashed down was so loud and powerful that we could not even hear each other.
There was no more time for foreplay. We had sex three times that afternoon. Under the waterfall, in a cave, and out in the open beneath the sunset. We could do it at any time, anywhere, because he was always ‘up for it.’ So. Much. Fun.
I was not relying on him to be ready so he could initiate. It was all up to me.
Beyond that afternoon, we didn’t continue to involve male enhancements in our sex life, but it was fun to explore and experiment.
So what did I learn from all this?
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Sometimes, our partners may be emotionally ready to have sex, but not-yet-there physically. Other times, it’s the opposite. But when they’re totally aligned, it’s the best. And it’s even better when it can be on-demand. ;)
Disclaimer: you should definitely consult a doctor before taking any prescription medications.